You expect a special move from him because of his past behavior. Although he wants to do something about it, he cannot do it. His is not insensitivity or insignificance, but only incompetence.
Your appreciation in your workplace seems exaggerated for some. The difference between you and your colleagues may lead to jealousy after a while. You may encounter a situation that you do not like today.
Since you place your responsibilities and obligations in the center of your life, you avoid some expenses that will satisfy you. However, you need such expenses.
You don't have to act like a hardworking student in all areas of your life. This may deprive you of some pleasure.


