You are as rational as you are emotional. Your relationship is in a very emotional picture, but in the context of logic. You have friends who try to learn what a controlled love is from you.
Independence is very important to you. At least, you argue that in some cases, the right to take initiative. Your privilege in this matter stems entirely from your successes.
You have given yourself full authority over money issues. You mostly see the benefit of this. But such a control can bore some of your friends. This may also apply to your lover.
If you're still claiming to be superficial, you're mowing exactly what you planted. Realizing that the problem is not superficial at all may be the first step you will take in a positive way.


