You shouldn't start seeing helplessness as a problem. As your lover's job gives you loneliness once in a while, it seems like a candidate to be almost the main problem of your relationship. You will see that everything is improving forward. Be patient.
These days you will have a big crowd about your problems. You may have a lot of promise. There is something in your business that prevents you from fully focusing on things. You need to discover and name it.
It is useful to be meticulous about money issues nowadays. You should stay away from unsolvable money discussions. Your accumulation that you want to move to more active areas causes you to experience insecurities.
In some cases, you have to suppress your curiosity. The fact that you often benefit from this prevents you from seeing hidden harms.